Monday, February 04, 2008

7 Tips For More Pleasurable and Passionate Lovemaking

Need some ideas to make your lovemaking phenomenal? These 7 tips should give you plenty of ideas to make your midnight sessions more hot, steamy and passionate, starting today…

1. Become more sensual

While most men want to ‘get the job done’ and reach the goal of orgasm, for women it’s more about the journey. Women love to reach climax as much as men do, but they also love a sensual stroke from your hand across their leg.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner and can even intensify their orgasm.

2. Try positions proven to increase pleasure

For women: The reverse missionary is identical to the traditional missionary except that she is on top. This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

For men: Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It is great for guys because they have full control over movement and pleasure.

3. Play bedroom games

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. They’re fun, sexy and have a lot of replay value.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and unleash some creativity!

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

4. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of their lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

5. Give them a sexy massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable. Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the sheets” where a massage of another kind can take place.

And no, you don’t need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.

6. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part of foreplay.

7. Use household items

It makes sense that to spice things up you need to do something different.

The more unique the experience, the more it fires up your lovemaking. Well, just recently I've found one of the very BEST ways to keep things passionate and exciting. It’s by using household items.

Huh? That's right! There are literally 100's of household items you can play with in your house. Everything from a rolling pin for a massage, ice for a cool sensation, cards for a naughty game or sheepskin that feels soft under your skin.

By dedicating time to finding new items, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary lovemaking for longer, and keep it that way. And while positions and techniques get old quickly, these items add a NEW LEVEL to your lovemaking that normal lovemaking just can't do. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.

In fact, unlike all the other suggestions, using household items for foreplay and intercourse proves to be the most unique and powerful way to spice up lovemaking.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "Sex All Around The House - Using Everyday Household Items To Spice Up Your Sex Life," helping you get in the mood, prolong the passion and create totally new sensations. Handpicked from over 1500 tips. To read more, visit: lovemaking tips website.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

5 Secret Words That Will Unlock Your Creativity

When faced with a problem, how many times have you heard the following phrases coming out of someone's mouth (even your own)? "I can't do it", "It won't work", "It'll never happen", "Nobody can do that", "There's no way", "That's impossible", "There's no such thing".

What if you could eradicate, wipe out, eliminate these phrases from your vocabulary? How would your life be improved? Do you believe it's possible to make a paradigm shift in your thinking? Then here is a deceptively simple and imminently powerful phrase to open a world of possibilities to your brain.

These are five secret words that will allow your creative genius (and yes, we all have it) to start working its magic: "I don't yet see how. . ." That's it. Five words. Let me explain why this is so powerful, one word at a time.

"I" - this takes the statement down you, personally. It avoids globalizing (i.e. - that something is impossible) and it keeps the ownership of and responsibility for the solution in your power.

"Don't" - a statement of fact. Merely an observation that at this moment in time, you do not see. No judgment is implied about your ability to see, your likelihood of seeing, your desire to see. Simply that you don't right now.

"Yet" - probably the most powerful part of the statement. This word signals to your brain that the solution WILL become visible.

Have you ever noticed something in your environment and said to yourself, "Has that been there all along? How could I have missed that?" The word, 'yet' opens a space in your thinking that allows you to see the solution when it is available. This is another way to express the adage that "When the student is ready, the teacher appears".

"See" - this could be substituted by the word "understand". This indicates to your brain that the solution exists somewhere but you don't yet have access to it. You either don't see it or don't understand it, but it's there somewhere to be seen and/or understood.

"How" - again, a signal to your brain that there IS a way to accomplish whatever you currently see as an obstacle.

Try this magical phrase on for size the next time you run into a roadblock. And as you knock down obstacle after obstacle, help people you love to see *their* possibilities and solutions.

Sunday, December 30, 2007

10 steps on "How to keep a Loving Relationship"

10 steps on "How to Keep a Loving Relationship"

If you really love and want to keep your marriage alive, you have to make sure that it will be a happy environment. Happily Married couples are difficult to find, remember you married each other expecting to live happily ever after. So why is it that divorce occurs 70% of the time? We truly lose sight of what matters, sharing a loving and caring relationship for ourselves and our partners. We tend to take things for granted so we have problems, the bitterness and unhappiness begins.

Who says that we have to be happy all the time, of course life can be difficult at times but we need to realize, we all need to be loved and no one is perfect all the time. We need to know that we have to give in order to receive, we have to expect that what we put out is what we will get in return . If you know deep down inside you want a change in your marriage then positive steps will result in positive outcomes... Life is too short, love one another and start living a more happy life within yourself. If there are too many negative aspects in your life , learn how to let go. Keep your thoughts positive, know exactly what the outcome is that you want.

10 steps on "How to keep a Loving Relationship"

1. Patience: Learn to relax and keep positive, letting go of the negative and thinking about the positive.

2. Communicate: Without fear and openness, let your partner know what you expect and how you would like to be treated.

3. Laughter: Make sure you have a smile on your face, let your partner know that they make you happy and you want to make them happy as well.

4. Learning to back off: Don't allow the negative habits to annoy you, think about the positive traits your partner has to offer and let the little annoying things go.

5. Romance: Think of love constantly, make every chance you get to make it a loving one. Reinforce the love you have and keep in mind that you both are special.

6. Sharing: Make time for love, respect, trust and appreciate one another. Quality time and time for lovemaking will deepen the intimate passion you have for one another.

7. Being confident: Know that you are special and are sharing it with someone just as unique, trust that you are creating a bond that noone can break and you are making it stronger.

8. Think before speaking: Don't allow hurtful words to be spoken, keep in mind that your goal is to create a loving and healthy environment. When hurtful words come out it might give you a sense of satisfaction to get back at your partner but, ultimately you will only find yourself filled with resentment.

9. Control anger: Learn not too intimidate your partner try not to manipulate them in any way. Anger builds up and creates a sense of inferiority, allowing anger to build will only build bigger walls.

10. Don't pass judgment: Never criticize or talk bad about your loved one. Bite your tongue. Never make them feel as though they are not worth being loved. Let them know that you are on their side no matter what.

Everyone needs love, if you are tired of negative behavior and negative effects, then it is time for you to try a different approach. Nothing changes unless you take action.

Best wishes,


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Thursday, July 26, 2007

More Joy, More Peace, More Love, More Happiness

What I know about joy, peace, love and happiness:

There is entirely too little of them going around! The media focus on the most ugly, unhappy events and most of us do the same in our lives. I've learned that when I stay away from news programs, it's much easier for me to stay focused on the goodness and light all around me.

Think about it -- how many people start and/or end their day by listening to a news program of some sort? With that diet of continual bad news, is it any wonder people remain focused on the ugly, the unhappy? I can hardly think of a worse thing to feed your brain and your nervous system right before going to bed than the 11 o'clock news!

Avoid as much news as possible. At the very least, eliminate any news-watching at night or close to bedtime. Replace it with something you find enjoyable. If you leave a television or radio on while you sleep, be mindful of the 'programming' you are feeding your brain when you're asleep. Find a channel that is as innocuous as possible if you absolutely, positively must have information flowing into your unconscious mind all night long.

Sunday, October 01, 2006

Big and Beautiful and Sexy

Are you fed up with feeling like you can’t be good in bed because you’re a large woman? Do you feel unattractive and not at all sexy? Do you despair of ever having the kind of sex life you read about in books and see on TV?

Wouldn’t you rather be making love than counting calories or running on a treadmill? If you’re smart enough to answer yes to that no-brainer question, A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide To Great Sex - The Caramel Sutra is the e-book for you!

And if you just want to feel good, watch this
2 minute Utube video

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Tuesday, January 17, 2006

Valentine's Day is on its way

Love Relationship: Book By Best Selling Author Helps Couples Avert Relationship Nightmares

Maychic, NY -- (SBWIRE) -- 01/17/2006 -- The most common and catastrophic problem facing America and the whole world today is not the spread of weapons of mass destruction but the breakdown of the traditional family and the attendant problems of dysfunctional homes, moral decadency, cultural degeneration, crimes and urban decay.

The root of this problem is that most people enter into love relationships and begin having families without knowing their dates, partners and spouses well enough and without caring for compatibility.

Therefore many of these relationships don’t last a long time.

After they have a few children, the marriage collapses.

Then custody battles ensue.

Children are often caught up in the battle between their fathers and mothers and are greatly impacted psychologically and socially all their lives by the traumatic bitter experience.

When children have no role models to look up to, they grow up with undeveloped characters which often cause failures in life.

They may be disposed to join the wrong gangs and live unpleasant lives filled with drugs, crimes, bitterness, misery and movement in and out of prisons.

This is why Michael Webb’s book about couples asking the right questions is of utmost importance in helping them to choose the right compatible mates for a loving relationship that may lead to a lasting, happy and solid marriage.

In this revealing relationship book, Mr. Webb has offered 1000 sensible, critical and important relationship questions every couple who desires success in marriage should ask each other before embarking on a serious love relationship.

Some of these relationship questions are about: Personality, Feelings & Emotions, Favorites, Pets, Attractions, Health, Food & Well Being, Vacations, Morals, Convictions and Beliefs, Religion & Spiritual Matters, Car & Driver, Holidays & Celebrations, Home & Home Life, Past & Future, Hobbies & Entertainment, Love, Romance & Date Nights, Friends & Family, Communication, Career and Education, Money, Relationships – Past & Present, Children & Child Rearing, Wedding & Honeymoon, Sex

Here is what a customer said about Mr. Webb’s love relationship book:

"My boyfriend of four and a half years and I really thought we knew each other well until we started going through your questions. It has been a wonderful experience." -- Laura Hill

Mr. Webb maintains that: "An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions. If you and your partner answer these 1000 questions, I guarantee that you will know each other better than 99% of couples on the face of the earth"

Michael Webb has appeared on over 500 radio and television shows including Oprah, Men are From Mars/ Women are From Venus, NBC News, 700 Club, The Other Half, Iyanla, To Tell the Truth and FOX News.

He has been featured in practically every major newspaper in the United States and is regularly mentioned in the nation's top magazines like Men's Health, Bridal Guide, Cosmopolitan, New Man, Women's Day, Family Circle and dozens others

Another of Mr. Webb’s customer, Patricia Jackley who bought this book and found it very useful and helpful said:
“The questions you pose throughout the book are thought provoking, honest and certainly added to creating a solid base to start our initial relationship and ultimately our marriage.

I can honestly say that your questions are universal, they are questions that reach into the heart of basic foundations such as morals, beliefs and values that bridge any cultural divides and differences.

My husband, Henri and I are so thankful we took the time to provide heartfelt and honest answers to each other. We believe it helped us to create a stronger bond than we would have ordinarily maintained. Thank you! From a faithful reader and fellow romantic, sincerely, Patricia”

To get more information about this critically important book on relationships, please visit this site.

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